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concept of life and goals

it's really that simple to be achieving something if you know how to. whatever it is, if you know how life cycle works, you can already blend in yourself and get along with the flow. thus, attaining your goal is never been a big deal.

what you must do actually?

1. to have point to go. in other words, to have goal, dream, desire or ambition. 

- from then you can start to work on them.

2. have a clear view of your goal.

- you must know holistically about your goal. what is your goal is about and to know how to attain it.

3. to have determination and courage to do all it takes to achieve that goal.

- set in your mind that 'nothing is impossible'. having an idol also makes you more determine to become just like them. idol is a guideline, learn about them, be like them but do not lose your real identity.

4. seek through opportunities and chances. never miss any thing that can help you with your goal.

- for example, with spm, you could get scholarship if you get good scores and that scholarship helps a lot in getting your goal. never miss that chance.

5. to identify why things are not going well.
- if you could list out what makes you fail, you can already find ways to solve the problems.

that's all it takes actually to achieve success or goals in much wider scope. there are processes to go through, though, but when you could put this into your life, it does help a lot.

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wisdom and motivation

"yes or no, no try-try" 

this is the quote that my uncle lives by and the thing about him, he's a successful person. he's an electrical engineer, working in NY and he was an alumni of Purdue University in Indianapolis (one of the top school in US). ok, now how can we relate success with the quote? what's that quote even mean?

"yes or no, no try-try" is matter of fact an attitude that works in mind and of act. when you say 'yes' you must put that yes in your mind and in your act. and when you say 'no' you must be firm that you won't get involved in that thing and won't even try to. and there is no such thing, 'i will try to make it there'.

the quote can also link up with dedication towards your motive and purpose. in other words, for example, the motive you go to school is to learn and for that you will learn as hard and act like it. your exam results will be the outcome that shows you are really or not at all (no barely, either success or fail) put it to work. other example, when someone asks you to meet him somewhere today and you said yes (never give unsure statement, e.g. if nothing happens i'll be there). you set that mark point and when it is time, you are there sharp, and not even a second to despair.

last but not least, yes or no to commitment and integrity in joining a system or organisation. when you are part of the members, you must be part of it generally. there is no such thing to become just a bit here and there and if that occurs, it might as well be a 'no' all along.

to conclude, it all based on our own will to really make it or just simply fail it. every successful one has their own story, create your own, and be an inspire to others.

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INTRODUCTION

to begin, there are many factors need to be consoled so we can achieve success.

what is success actually?
someone said that success is when you feel satisfied with what you do thus in every moment you do that thing will give pleasant feeling. success is also elaborated as how much someone is contributing to the society, and the more they give, the more successful are they. whatever it is, success cannot be achieved without factors to be included with. and not to mention the quality of a success if one of the criteria is not there alongside with the achievement.

what are these qualities need to be utilised?

1. relationship with God.
always have a thought there that obedience towards Allah is the major purpose of this life. 

2. pure heart.
the Prophet of Mercy, Sayyiduna Muhammad al-Mustafa SAW said; 'surely there is in the body a small piece of flesh; if it is good, the whole body is good, and if it is corrupted, the whole body is corrupted, and that surely the heart.'
Sahih al-Bukhari


3. knowledge and wisdom (ilm)
from Nabiyu Allah SAW narrated, 'whoever seeks the world, he must have knowledge; and whoever seeks for akhirah, he must have knowledge; while whoever seeks the world and hereafter, he must have knowledge as well.'

HR Bukhari and Muslim

4. attitude
(a complex mental state involving beliefs and feelings and values and dispositions to act in certain ways.)

-from dictionary on ipad

5. akhlak and manners and adaab
kindness is a mark of faith, and whoever hath not kindness hath no faith

6. healthy physical
arabic quote says that, 'al 3aqlu -s saleem fi jismi -s saleem'. which is, healthy mind derives from healthy body.

7. social or communicating skills.
-especially if you wanting to become a leader or wanting to make change over something.

8. guidelines and rules and obligations
the rule is made for a thing that is to keep us safe.

find out how to attain those by following our post